Frailty Creeps, It Doesn’t Crash
No one thinks they're going to be frail... and most don't have to.
Frailty doesn’t arrive overnight.
It creeps. Quietly. Patiently. Unnoticed.
We normalize the small losses.
We tell ourselves it’s just a natural part of aging.
We accept things we shouldn’t.
At first, it’s subtle.
A little less speed when you cross the street.
More effort is required to get out of a chair.
A stumble on uneven ground that didn’t used to be there.
You recover, so you brush it off.
This isn’t normal aging. You shouldn’t just write it off.
Because slowly, these little moments add up.
And because they happen gradually, we adjust without realizing it:
You stop taking the stairs because they feel harder.
You park closer to the store.
You avoid the trail you used to hike because the roots make you nervous.
You choose the chair instead of the floor, because getting up feels clumsy now.
And then one day, you find your world has gotten smaller—not because you chose it, but because your body made the choice for you.
Frailty doesn’t crash into us.
It sneaks up while we’re not paying attention. Slowly… over many years.
The danger isn’t one fall… it’s the slow erosion that makes falls inevitable. Each fall or illness that requires “rest” drops our baseline abilities just a little bit. Over the decades, those losses accumulate, slowly… imperceptibly— until they’re obvious.
The danger isn’t one bad decade; it’s quietly surrendering the little choices until the big ones are made for us.
But… frailty is not inevitable.
You can change the trajectory.
And it starts by understanding what’s happening inside your body long before you notice the effects.
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